PERFECTNESS..

“Why does everyone seems to be perfect except for me? Why can’t I have a perfect life?”……..

Does these questions are a part of your life? I think most of us do ask these questions to ourselves. What is the reason behind all these thoughts? No one knows. . But when we see people who lead a “so called” perfect life we only see the brighter side of them. We underestimate ourselves for things which we find perfect in others. We don’t see the things which we are perfect in and don’t even realize that others who we think to be perfect might not be perfect in which we are. We start changing our habits for the sake of being recognized in a gathering. But in doing so, we start losing our old-self. We even start to miss the way we were. We start losing friends who liked our old-self. This kills our self-confidence and results in hurting ourselves. We are rather cheating ourselves. So, by changing according to a person who we consider to be perfect doesn’t help us but rather destroys our identity of who we are and what we can do.

So guys remember….Thinking someone to be perfect is our way of perceiving a particular individual. Do not ever change your habits or behavior which is liked by your close-ones for the sake of being perfect. When we start believing in ourselves no one can stop us from being happy and satisfied.  In this world “Nobody is perfect”.